I Don’t Feel That “Spark”, Should I Go On A Second Date With Him?

Matthew responds well to this question in the video below.  The caller mentions that the guy she is dating is a "good guy" and so on, but on the first date is the ideal any one of us wants to reveal to someone we are meeting for the first time.  This is when you should feel the spark, then the second date is to explore it more.

Matthew also mentions comfort in his video and it's a great point.  People naturally desire comfortable relationships, but comfort always comes at a price that makes you a slave in the end.  We are not condoning recklessness, but make sure you aren't settling for someone nice, because nice people can turn mean when they realize you've been faking your chemistry with them.

Don't do it.  Move on.